I am about to get really angry. Just tried to call my kids *(they live with dad during the school year) and I get no response. So I text their dad to have them call me. I then get a text from their step-mother saying that they are "grounded' and can't call me and could she take a message. Excuse me?!?!? No you may not take a damn message, you can have my kids call me/answer the phone whenever I call. Its part of our custody plan that who ever has the kids at that time is to allow them to contact/be contacted by the other parents whenever desired. Their dad is not responding to me at all, and the kids phone is just ringing and going to voicemail.
I have an email in to JAG to determine what legal routes I can take.
All the phones are now going straight to voicemail and I'm not getting any text responses. I kept all my communication civil stating : "no Sorry. According to our custody agreement, they can't be kept from calling or texting me. Have him call" and then she replied " U don't have to give me attitude! Ive never done anything to u except be nice to u" to which I replied "Not giving attitude. Stating a fact. Have him call me. Thanks" to which she replied "u r mean! I take care/treat/teach your kids as if my own and that's what I get." to which I again replied "have them call me "
just got a call from their dad. He's at work and just noticed that I had called/forwarded him her text, so she is the one stating that they can't call. He is on his way home now to deal with the situation.
... It makes me angry that despite the arrangement we had set up prior to her being in the kids life, that she is able to just on a whim say that the kids can't contact me because she's upset with them due to grades. I am all for enforcing the "no phone/internet" rule when grades fall below certain levels, but seriously-- who stops kids from calling their mother?
Thoughts?
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